Adapting to Offkilterness
We all share a common sense of confusion and offkilterness in 2020. So many aspects of our lives have been jolted into an unsettled sense of being. We fix one thing and another thing jumps up like a whack-a-mole game but it’s truly no game at all. It’s exhausting. And discouraging. And without a way to bring back a sense of calm and peace, it will continue on through the fall and into 2021.
I’m addressing this ongoing problem in a few different ways.
- Being sure I am prioritizing listening to people who are positive influences–not pollyannas or debbydowners, but realists who seem to have found a way to manage these unsettled times.
- Taking a hard look at my commitments and removing those that are causing more stress than they are worth.
- Refocusing my efforts in practical matters that are key to my successes as an artist. Going deeper into the items that will benefit from my complete uninterrupted attention.
- Doing small things that matter for people I love.
- Reining in the scattered interests that take time away from my core interests and values.
- Finding time to be ok with doing nothing but thinking about how blessed and grateful I am and will be in the future.
Good luck as you find your balance again.
Lesson learned: I could have done all this without a pandemic.
Sage advice, Ann, as we all try to find our way either accepting or rebelling against the new abnormal. Sometimes you just need to sit with it. Be well.